Wednesday, March 26, 2008
So at first, she didn't mind so much WHICH character was on the "Cheetool" (Hebrew for diaper), but I'm trying to figure out which kid in daycare to blame for suddenly turning my kid into a character-obsessed-girly-girl! Suddenly, she ONLY wanted the Zoe diapers, she made Mommy and I kiss Zoe, just like she did. She has recently been OK with the other ones, as I simply tell her that we're out of Zoe Cheetoolim, and does she want Elmo or Ernie or Cookie Monster. They all make her happy, so it's fine. (We keep her in the 7th gens by day, but she needs the more absorbent Pam*ers at night). But then! Nayla, in her daycare room, turned two, and gave out Easter baskets to everyone. (oy, another rant, but they DID appreciate the hamentashen I brought!) And IN the basket (after I secretly passed on the uber-sugar crap, but did save a piece or two of "chak-oh-lette" for the Cheeky), were some barrettes. Malka squealed "Zoe!" and pointed. And I was all - HUH? And she grabbed the package of barrettes, and HUGGED THEM to her chest, and squealed "ZOE!" And I felt my sense of self as a parent drop a notch or two.
But at least, she's letting me put a barrette IN her hair now, which might at least, prevent the "how old is HE" questions from being so popular. Because yes, Virginia, even girly girls wear shirts with basketballs on them.
Tuesday, March 25, 2008
Monday, March 24, 2008
Sunday, March 23, 2008
Here's my list, but um, since some of you reading may be some of the recipients, um, I really can't list EVERYthing....
1) Finish Quilt-a-long project (I'm seeing SO many beautiful examples, and it's inspiring me to finish!)
2) Hooter Hider for Inbar
3) Um, "project s"
4) OK, um, "project qp"
5) And "project n"
6) Tallis for Narda out of her mom's old Dashiki
7) clothes for my ever growing child.
Phew. Ok - only 3 that I can't mention... heh. ;)
But for now, we are off to Brooklyn, to hang out with House of Miao, and Malka's quiet. Which usually means trouble. So I've got to go. Ciao!
Wednesday, March 19, 2008
Thursday am, she was thrilled as a bug on a rug, as I used the Ergo and a public bus to get her to daycare, as it was raining cats and dogs, and the stroller for a mile long walk in the rain is no fun for anyone. I was slightly worried, as she tends to REALLY love the Ergo, and has a hard time when I take her OUT. BUT... "Tia Anna" was there, so all was well, as she couldn't get OUT fast enough.
I pick her up from daycare, she happily goes in the Ergo, and then we get home. She doesn't want to come out. At all. So I keep her in a bit, and then use every distraction method in the book, and FINALLY, "Signing Time" on the computer allows her to come out of the beloved Ergo. Now maybe I should clarify. Not a complete "Signing Time," mind you. A one MINUTE song called: "Nice to Meet you." Over, and over, and over. After, oh, 20 minutes of "Nice to Meet You," I was SO done. And besides, dinner was ready. She did NOT want Signing Time to end, and threw a minor fit. Now even having done the "OK, Cheeky, we'll do 3 more times, and then it's time to say bye-bye to "Signing Time," (which usually works well when she's not a mess), she wailed, protested, reached arms out to hit, etc. You know, a wild 2 year old tantrum. So then I get SOME dinner in her, and then it's time for bath. She wanted NONE of that, so I did the stupidest thing EVER. I offered her the elixir of happiness - Bubbles! In the bath! WOAH! How much fun was THAT! Massive amounts of fun. Until, you know, it was over. Tantrum #2 for the evening. Despite distractions, hugs, and routine, she was OVER this whole "do what Eemah says thing." I finally get her to her room, and we restore some of the bedtime routine, and she willingly goes to bed. But just as I leave the room, however, she catches on, and starts whining/fussing. My heart rate/blood pressure elevate, and I simply ride it out. It takes her 40 minutes to settle. I've never ridden it out solo before, Narda's always been there to remind me that she's FINE. Really. She's just a vocal girl. And she is - it's never an escalated cry, because if it is, we go to her. But she whines/fusses/cries as a way to soothe herself to sleep. And it kills me.
But we all survived, and she has slowly been restoring to normal, as it were. It DOES feel, however, that she totally into the "terrible twos" full speed ahead - tantrums, NOT listening, "NO!," whining, etc. If it's "on the list" as being part of the terrible twos? Malka's doing it. And I actually caught myself yelling at her for the first time, using a swear word. Yesterday am, she took her insane pills, and was pushing all of MY buttons, and I finally let lose and said: "do you EVER fucking keep still!" And because Malka has rarely, if ever seen me yell directly AT her, she thought it was the funniest thing ever, and just laughed.
It's a good thing she's so damn cute and asks for snuggles so much, because that can balance out the hard stuff any day.
We had a great time in DC, seeing our friends over at AdProb, and getting some good time in with mommy. Pictures are slowly coming into flickr, so be sure to check out naked babies in a tub, chapter 5. Cait said to me, mid bath: "Do you think the girls will find it odd when they are 14 and we want tub pictures?"
We also saw some elephants peeing at the zoo. Malka thought that was THE funniest thing ever. She really liked the hippos, too. We went with Jenny, Ezra and Elsie, who went forward facing in her moby for the first time and LOVED it. It was REALLY cute, too.
Sunday, March 16, 2008
Tuesday, March 11, 2008
Oh wait, and let's not forget our dear friend, Aahnold...
You know? It's REALLY easy to find articles about Politico MEN who sleep around and violate the "institution" of Marriage. But stories like the above mentioned that appear within OUR families? RARE, if at all.
I'm just sayin...
Monday, March 10, 2008
Saturday, March 08, 2008
OK - since I'd never say that to her, I feel i can say it to you.
To her - it's "gentle, gentle, we don't bite."
But Narda's in DC, and I have to scream somewhere.
So you get to hear it - FUCKING OUCHHHHHHHHHHHH!
we're off to have dinner at a friend's. She's in heaven playing with her car seat.
Thursday, March 06, 2008
So sorry for the traffic sounds and views of the Malka's coat. But enjoy...
A B C from Shelli on Vimeo.
Tuesday, March 04, 2008
Make a list of 5 things that you have to get done this week (NON-Work related), no matter how small
Get 2 other people off their asses to get their shit in order.
So here is my list
1 Finish quilting the top of a baby blanket I’m working on
2. finish the sashing of Amanda Jean’s Quilt-a-long
3. figure out what Malka and I will do IN DC for a few days while mommy works.
4. de-clutter the “entrance cubbies”
5. pick a quilt pattern for Narda’s mom’s Dashikis…And I tag:
(and I know that I still have to do that book meme for Lo and for Jenny - I'll have to do that a wee later, however. Forgive me.)
Monday, March 03, 2008
Sunday, March 02, 2008
Saturday, March 01, 2008
To my friends in Ohio, Rhode Island, Texas and Vermont. Watch this before Tuesday, please.
(and everyone else watch it, too - it's good.)