long time passing? Where have all the FF'ers gone, long time ago?
They done up and left due to the "icing" on the cake, if you will, of Big Brother watching and slapping hte wrists for asking "silly" questions, like: "why was I banned for asking about community credits," or: "Why was I reported in a buddy group for using a swear word?" Then they have the AUDACITY to tell folks that the (free software, mind you) message boards will now be available to paying customers only.
I was "grandfathered in" from my old lifetime VIP status, but many of the women that I have come to know and adore are not. And no longer have access to the boards.
So what's any right minded hormonaly pumped up woman to do? LEAVE! Start a NEW forum somewhere else - somewhere where there is no censorship, drama or big brother watching - because last time I checked, (with a small exception of course), the majority of women there are, um, oh darn, what's the phrase I'm looking for? OH YES..... Smart, intelligent GROWN UPS, who don't need teacher listening in on the bathroom door.
So although it's a bit harder to lurk on other "boards," if you will, here are the three places I've gone to:
For my lesbain mama friends: Conchita's place
For my "Preggo after IUI" friends: Connected moms
And for my life line, my NY/NJ Gals: Fertility Family
So there you have it.
I cannot post these links on Fertility Friend, so I post them here, hoping that y'all are reading my blog! :)
If we ever try sperm again, which may happen aftger we've been waiting in our adoption process for a year, then I might chart again, and I'll post a link if it does.
But for now, I just like the support of chatting with my friends - and many of these women I've known now for over three years, and they have TRULY become my friends.
Jen and Cait
(There are more of you wonderful, fabulous women, but I have to go shower and leave for work..... I'll update it later.)
So ladies, I look forward to continuing the journey.
Ta ta to the tyrany that was Fertility Friend - it used to be a great place....