the performance review

So today I learned that I need to "round my edges" - a valuable lesson, DAMN hard to hear, but I appreciate it. I'm a big, bold, brassy gal, and that can scare people sometimes. It's like I can see it all so clearly now, the previous events in my life where I felt that I was "wronged" - I actually was in the one in the wrong.*insert new paragraph here, I haven't really figured out this whole HTML thing* I am at the precipice of a new learning curve, if only I can stay open and remember....